How Men Of God Lead With Love And Strength In Today’s World

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Published by Kenneth Garcia


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In our modern world, manhood is often equated with machismo. It is an inflated sense of being “manly” and self-reliant, a concept linked to strong masculine pride or exaggerated masculinity. Many men boast of their muscular bodies, dominating characters, and ability to rule over women, other people, and circumstances. Some have also developed sinful, distorted views about marriage.

However, a man of God is far different from this stereotype. Instead of power, he exudes humility and strength born of character. He loves the Lord above all things[1] and loves other people as well. He is a man of service, one who is ready to help and protect others in need. He possesses godly wisdom and spirit to guide his family, church, and community in righteousness and purpose.

What Does It Mean To Be Men Of God?

Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, and be strong.

1 Corinthians 16:13

Being a man of God simply means embodying the values of faith, strength, courage, and duty in all aspects of life. These values are not only crucial for the growth of a person but also for being a positive role model for others to follow. Men who are committed to living faithfully understand that this is not just a set of beliefs but a way of life that informs their thoughts, words, and actions.

One of the defining qualities of a man of God is his strength. This strength does not refer to any sort of physical body strength, but it does refer to emotional and spiritual strength. A man of God is able to weather the storms and emerge stronger on the other side.

They are not afraid to fight for what is right, even when it is difficult or unpopular. They are also able to provide resources, support, guidance, and protection to those around them, whether it is their family, friends, or community.

Courage is another key trait of a man of God. It takes courage to stick up for one’s beliefs in a world that often seems hostile to faithfulness. A man of God is not afraid to take risks or speak out against injustice. He is willing to put himself on the line to defend the weak and vulnerable.

At the same time, being a man of God requires a strong sense of responsibility. Men who are committed to living faithfully understand that they have been given a leadership role in their families and communities. They are called to lead by example, to provide for their loved ones, and to be a source of strength and support for those around them. Becoming the man God wants you to be is a lifelong journey that requires obedience to the Lord.

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What Is A Man Of God Really Like?

Pursuit Of God

After removing Saul, he made David their king. God testified concerning him: “I have found David son of Jesse, a man after my own heart; he will do everything I want him to do.”

Acts 13:22

A man of God is someone who regularly pursues a deeper relationship with God through love and obedience. He understands that his will must align with God’s will, and he strives to live in a way that reflects this understanding. Love is at the core of his goals, as he seeks to grow in his love for God and for others.

In order to do this, he must be obedient to God’s commands and follow His guidance. He should trust that God’s plan is greater than his own. For instance, Scripture reveals that young men are encouraged to enter spiritual servitude.

Despite a certain struggle, a man of God remains steadfast in his aims, trusting that God will guide him and provide for him. Ultimately, the pursuit of a man of God is a lifelong journey that requires dedication, humility, and a willingness to surrender his own will to God.

Head Of The Household

He must manage his own family well and see that his children obey him, and he must do so in a manner worthy of full respect.

1 Timothy 3:4

In the Christian faith and culture, as well as in other religions, it is believed that the man of the house is the head of the household. This means that he is responsible for managing and providing for his family, as well as protecting them from harm and spending time with them.

While this verse may sound outdated to some, it is still a widely accepted belief in many communities. The man is expected to love and care for his family and put their needs above his own. A man of God does not rule over a woman but loves his wife.

He is also expected to be a strong and reliable provider, ensuring that his family has all the things they need to live comfortably. As Christ is the head of the church, man is the head of the household.

What Is An Example Of A Man Of God In The Bible?

  • Abraham: The father of the Jewish people and many nations who followed God. His unwavering trust in God was so great that he was willing to obey God’s command to go wherever the Lord wanted him to go. He was also willing to sacrifice his son, Isaac, in obedience to God.
  • Joseph: He was a son of Jacob, who had twelve sons. He was loved by his father, but his brothers became jealous and sold him as a slave. Joseph was brought to Egypt and soon appointed as a high official of the pharaoh.
  • King David: As a young man, he was a shepherd who was after God’s own heart. With God’s help, he killed the giant Goliath and later became the third and most remarkable king in the United Kingdom of Israel.
  • Paul: The apostle Paul was called the Great Evangelist because he brought the Gospel to the Gentile nations. Once a prominent Roman officer who persecuted Christians, God called Paul to live with humility and servitude.
  • Jesus: As the Messiah, the death of Jesus Christ fulfilled the most important role in history: the salvation of mankind. Also called the Last Adam, He lived a life without sin and with perfect righteousness. Jesus obeyed the will of the Father and became the Lamb of God and the Light of the World.

How To Act And Grow Like Men Of God?

Grow In Faith

The apostles said to the Lord, “Increase our faith!”

Luke 17:5

This is a personal journey that requires belief, prayer, and a deep understanding of the Bible. Attending church and participating in church services are great ways to connect with others who share similar beliefs.

Through regular attendance and engagement, you can learn more about the gospel and teachings of the Bible and how to apply them to your daily life. Prayer is also essential, as it allows you to communicate with God and seek guidance and wisdom.

By making a consistent effort to incorporate these practices and qualities into your routine, you can experience a deeper sense of purpose and fulfillment in all things on your spiritual journey.

Obedience To God’s Word

If you love me, you will keep my commandments.

— John 14:15

Obedience to God’s Word is one of the most crucial aspects of the Christian life of a man of God. It is not just about reading the Bible but also studying it and applying its writing to our lives. As believers, we are called to follow God’s commands and seek His will in all that we do. This requires a deep commitment to understanding the Scriptures and a willingness to submit to His authority.

By reading and studying the Bible, we gain a better understanding of God’s character and His message for our lives on earth. Each page reveals wisdom and an answer to life’s questions. We can then apply this knowledge to our daily lives, living in a way that pleases Him and brings glory to His name. Obeying God’s Word is not always easy, but it is a necessary part of our spiritual growth and maturity.

Imitate Christ

And we all, who with unveiled faces contemplate the Lord’s glory, are being transformed into his image with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit.

2 Corinthians 3:18

The Bible encourages us to imitate the character of Christ. As a man of God, this is a call to a higher standard of service and love for our fellow men. Jesus was a perfect example of righteousness, holiness, and humility, and it is to this standard that we must strive to emulate. It is God’s desire for us to be good and loving to those around us and to bring glory to His name in everything we do.

We must seek to live a life of spiritual intentionality and to be a reflection of the character of Jesus in the world. We must recognize that this is not an easy task, but with God’s help, we can do it. Living a life transformed by the grace of God brings us closer to the character of Jesus. As we become closer to Him, we are also able to draw closer to our fellow man.

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Men of God are not perfect. We are all weak and helpless in God’s sight. But when we call on His holy name and accept Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior, His grace and holiness abound. As a result, we are empowered by the Holy Spirit to live a pious and righteous life that brings peace and joy and has meaning.

Such grace and identity also give us the wisdom, courage, and strength to be righteous leaders in our families, churches, and communities. We honor and pursue God’s calling to be holy as we emulate the servanthood of Jesus Christ.

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